A few months ago I joined Facebook. Not because I'm into "social networking", but because of an article I read stating that adults, and not just teens, were making use of the social utility. So I gave it a try.
I deleted my account yesterday after finding no use for Facebook. When you deactivate, Facebook requires (yes, requires) that you check one of the listed reasons. I checked that I didn't find it useful. Apparently Facebook is smart enough to realize that some people do not find the site useful.
I'm not knocking the site or the idea of networking with "friends". I suppose that there are uses for the site for many people. But there was nothing to keep me there. I found the whole idea of the term "friend" to be at odds with my concept of friendship. I became "friends" with a bunch of people I didn't know in the least.
I have a few online friends, so I think I understand the concept of friendship as it occurs in cyber-space. But my online friends are people that I actually share communication with. To an extent, I get to know them, whether through their blogs, e-mail, or instant messaging. Which sure beats writing on someone's "wall" or posting some little blurb on what I'm doing at a particular moment - since the only thing you can really be doing at any given moment is sitting at your computer desk inputing what you're doing at that moment, which is sitting at your computer desk.
366 - faze
3 days ago


